Unhelpful advice when shy about going to fancy dress party (2,8)

I believe the answer is:

be yourself

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If this is the answer I cannot explain how the clue works.

(Another definition for be yourself that I've seen is " Act naturally".)

I've seen this clue in The Irish Times.

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