Weep so bitterly at first (3)
I believe the answer is:
sob
'weep' is the definition.
(I know that sob is a more specific form of the action the weep)
'so bitterly at first' is the wordplay.
'at first' suggests taking the first letters.
The initial letter of 'bitterly' is 'b'.
'so'+'b'='SOB'
(Other definitions for sob that I've seen before include "Cry uncontrollably" , "Cry convulsively" , "making one gasp" , "Weep heavily, wail" , "Shake with tears" .)