Being civil is very much like the police (6)
I believe the answer is:
polite
'being civil' is the definition.
(synonyms)
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for polite that I've seen before include "Not rude" , "Well-mannered, courteous" , "Good mannered and civil" , "Cultured, refined" , "Of courteous manners" .)