Mother sadly has to stand up in greeting (6)
I believe the answer is:
salaam
'greeting' is the definition.
(salaam is an Arabic greeting)
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for salaam that I've seen before include "Muslim greeting signifying peace" , "An Oriental greeting meaning peace" , "An Oriental salute or bow" , "Oriental bow and salutation" , "Peaceful greeting" .)